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Cultivating humility and guarding against pride
August 2, 2010  |  radhanath-swami

Richard had chosen the life of a beggar, sleeping on riverbanks or under trees, searching for God by exploring holy places, and learning spiritual lessons on the way. He believed God was pushing him to seek more truths. From Varanasi, Richard travelled to Pashupatinath at Kathmandu Valley in Nepal. Being a foreigner he was rejected entry into the temple of Lord Shiva by the guards. Richard was crestfallen as he had travelled long distances in train and rear of trucks, with much hope to discover a spiritual meaning to life. At much risk, he covered himself with sacrificial ashes and attempted to enter the temple again. This time not only the guards didn’t recognize him, they dragged him to the central altar of God and honored him with an exclusive opportunity to see and worship God in the temple. Richard was overwhelmed by this turnaround and felt deeply humbled.

“Did he not recognize me in my disguise or was he aware who I was and simply honoring my determination? This I will never know. Whatever the reason, I was deeply humbled. I had defied human law and deserved to be beaten, but God is merciful. Standing before the altar, my limbs covered with ashes, my drab ascetic robes, and tangled, matted hair awkwardly covered with silks and flowers, I squeezed my tearing eyes shut, joined my palms and prayed that I would be shown my true path as I continued my journey.”

Reflecting on this incident, I felt it’s easy to be humble when we fail, but to be humble, prayerful and grateful during success reveals the substance of a person’s character. Before an important event in my life, like exams, a lecture programme or a critical meeting, I have been nervous and intensely prayerful. However if the event turns out to be successful, I am not as prayerful as before the event. I offer a customary ‘thank you’ to God and riding the wave of success, forget about the desperation I had before the event. There is pride in the heart and a feeling that my hard work and preparation merited the success. Reading Radhanath Swami’s mood of gratitude and humility after he made it to the altar of the temple has taught me a lesson on humility and prayer; it’s equally important to be humble and prayerful during success.

Radhanath Swami celebrates the success of his students but as a loving father guards them from the dangers of pride creeping into the heart. He says, “I become extremely happy when I hear all of you doing well, but I also fear that pride may enter the heart and spoil everything.” Once one of his students gave a series of excellent talks in Mumbai on spiritual science, and thousands attended daily. News of the glory of his student reached Radhanath Swami, who was at the time in America. He promptly wrote a letter to his student, thanking him for the service and congratulating him for the success. He also cautioned at the end of the letter, “Please be humble. Souls greater than both you and me have fallen away from spiritual life, due to arrogance and pride. Carefully guard against pride by cultivating humility, and never think yourself to be better than the most menial servant who washes pots in the temple.”

Radhanath Swami’s tireless efforts have created an excellent community of spiritual seekers in Mumbai. People from all over the world come to Mumbai to learn from him. When he was recently honored for this successful project, he humbly revealed his state of consciousness, “I am not responsible for all this success. I am simply a cheer leader, standing on the side, and watching it all happen. I simply keep cheering as all of you are doing wonderful things”. Despite engineering many successful projects, his consciousness is immersed in giving credit to his guru. “This is my guru’s sense of humor that he is allowing me to be used as an instrument despite my unlimited disqualifications.” Radhanath Swami is a shining example of one striving for excellence in pleasing guru and God, and simultaneously meditating on one’s own disqualifications.

Whether success or failure, Radhanath Swami says we should be humble and make this honest confession to God, “My dear Lord, I was nothing, I am nothing, I will be nothing and You are everything”.

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177 Comments


  1. Pride destroys our material as well as spiritual life. Humility is the backbone of real,eternal happiness.
    Thanks for the lesson.

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  2. Maharaj always mentions we have to be humble then the blade of grass & more tolerant than a tree. He practically shown that example to never allow pride enter into his heart in spite of doing so much of seva & dedicating his life for the spiritual welfare of all of us.

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  3. H.H.Radhanth Swami is an excellant Teacher and spiritual guide…!!!

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  4. H.H.Radhanath Swami is an excellant Teacher and Spiritual guide…!!!

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  5. An extremly difficult task in this material world to be prideless when succsess comes,forgeting stressful time before succsess, but still there is a hope against hope that we take shelter of Radhanath Swami’s prayers to the God and try our level best with utmost honesty to be humble and caring for others.Thank you very much.

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  6. Radhanath swami is really helping thousands & lakhs of peoples around the globe…just to become god conscious means ultimately happy

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  7. This is true!Humility and Pride these are 2 qualities which we are always fighting for and against.Ordinarily people like us are more on the side of Pride than humility because it fans our ego.We resort to humility only when we are in difficulty and pretend to be humble.This is well pointed out by Radhanath Swami for us to be guarded against. Thank you Radhanath Swami. We hope that somehow we are able to follow this instruction of yours!

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  8. wonderful… simply wonderful. I could have a small glimpse of what a sadhu is… thank you for sharing this…

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  9. Thank You Maharaj for reminding us again and again that we are nothing, nothing and nothing and God is everything.

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  10. Mangesh Kulkarni

    Spellbound…

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  11. hrishikesh mafatlal

    This most difficult lesson of being humble during success and not get carried away, is made easy because of Radhanath Swami’s personal example and presence in his devotees’ hearts. Truly this is the Lord’s arrangement.

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  12. perfect statement, one must undeerstand that he is nothing and the lord is everything, thanks for sharing, regards, rajesh karia

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  13. very powerful expereince of radhanath swami with great realizations, regards, bhakti

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  14. It is not that Radhanath Swami considers any kitchen job as menial – that may be so by our calculations – Radhanath Swami holds both in same esteem.

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  15. “My dear Lord, I was nothing, I am nothing, I will be nothing and You are everything” – Radhanath Swami shows us our position and the atitute that we need to carry in life. Thank you.

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  16. Through his personal example Radhanath Swami teaches time and again how to be humble and adopt a prayerful mood in any situation in life.

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  17. Wow!!!Simply wonderful… Radhanath Swami is an exemplary teacher…

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  18. Yes it is so true that we cannot be humble when we are successful. We may make a show of humility and give the credit to others, when we are successful, however, in our mind we think “I did it all. Lord was merciful on ME”.

    I need to learn this ART of being “humble” which is possible only if sincerely implement Radhanath Maharaj’s teachings.

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  19. Radhanath Swami’s lessons on humility are glorious forever. Because he lives what he speaks.

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  20. “Whether success or failure, Radhanath Swami says we should be humble and make this honest confession to God, “My dear Lord, I was nothing, I am nothing, I will be nothing and You are everything”.” – This mood is really hard to have and just the fact that Radhanath swami has this beautiful mood and inspires his students to have the same mood is really really inspiring.

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  21. When we look at Radhanath Maharaj we can see a living example of a person who is humble and selfless. That’s why his words have such an effect on us.

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  22. Radhanath Swami is so concerned about the spiritual lives of his disciples.

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  23. your observation is keen…and you speak out the heart of most of us. Radhanath Swami Maharaj, on the other hand is out of this world.

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  24. from this sharing one can easily get convinced that in this world of duplicity and show business, one even not doing anything claims his achievement and spread their success stories, whereas in case of radhanath swami inspite of doing so much endeavour for the mankind he simply out of humility passes the credit to his guru maharaj and the supreme god,

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  25. Just wonderful

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  26. Such a wonderful lesson to learn on humility!

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  27. “I had defied human law and deserved to be beaten, but God is merciful” This statment is very touching. Only a great advanced devotee of the Lord can think in this way, that he is wrong and deserves punishment. Very very rare to find such type of thinking in today’s world. Thank you Maharaj for this wonderful lesson given at such a hard time of your journey.

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  28. Radhanath Swami has often mentioned that it is our attitude of humility and sincerity that attracts the Lord rather than big donations. In his book, we can find so many examples where he prays to the Lord with utmost humility and no trace of any pride.

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  29. Radhanath Swami’s intense desire for God has made him the great spiritual leader that he is. He does not teach that there is no God, or that everyone is God in all respects, but teaches that everyone is God’s eternal part and a loving servant.

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  30. All Golries To H.H.Radhanath Swami Maharaj

    Rightly said, though it is difficult to cultivate humility, and pride may come easy, it should be our constant endeavour to be as humble as possible wherever situations may make us unduly proud.

    Hare Krishna

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  31. Radhanath Swami always emphasizes on Humility because he believes in the words Pride comes before Fall.

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  32. Sanjiv Chandnani

    This is such an important observation that Radhanath Swami prayed even after getting success in entering the temple. and how when we gt suvvess we just ride on it forgetting that couple of minutes back we were nervouslly praying to God for help..
    Thanking you so much for sharing this

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  33. radhanath swami maharaj puts a great emphasis on humility. so we all should put our heart to work upon it.

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  34. Thank you. This is an inspiration to struggle to maintain humility in successful situations.

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  35. In this experience Maharaj was being dissallowed Darshan only due to His external appearance..the guards were unaware of His pure consciousness and genuine spiritual quest..which teaches us that how one must be so careful not to judge people based on the surface but to go deeper down and try and see their hearts and touch their souls..

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  36. Radhanath Swami’s intense absorption in deep contemplation of the situations, circumstances that he has gone thru in his life, & the amazing heart-purifying lessons he teaches – this is something really worth following.

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  37. Wonderful article. HH Radhanath Swami Maharaj teaching us the most important and most crucial lesson. How should our consciousness be at all turns of life be it Success or Failure. Especially how crucial it is to handle Success. Teaching us by “Acharan”. My humble obeisances to a Great Acharya.
    I am very glad that his Book is scheduled for Release / Launch this month in various cities.

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  38. radhanath swami maharaj teaches here a great lesson of being humble not only at the time of failure, but at the time of success also, which reveals the substance of our character

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  39. wonderful lesson

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  40. Thank you very much for sharing

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  41. Amazing Teachings of Radhanath Swami

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  42. Thank You so much for sharing

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  43. Very Very nice article.

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  44. Simple souls are humble and they teach by practicing it. Thanks for sharing this wonderful meditation.

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  45. Maharaj has always followed the instruction of chaitanya Mahaprabhu.

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  46. Very nice story.

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  47. Radhanath Maharaj’s caution against pride is really helpful and important as pride is always ready to creep in at any time in the mind even for small things.

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  48. it is very difficult in life at times to actually know whether the voice in ur heart is genuine or its ur own concoction

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  49. raghunath puridas

    Maharaj teaches us that If we are not humble and always grumble then in japa we will just mumble and in devotion we will tumble

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